Approach Anxiety

About a year ago, I recognized that 1) not only is fear/anxiety the root cause of 80% of guys’ sticking points with women, but that also 2) fear/anxiety is the root cause of why 80% of guys don’t actually ever get off their ass and do anything with what they learned.

So how do we get a guy to take action?

Yup.

Also, he goes on and I feel like the whole approach of desensitisation is something that I could actually do. Something I might actually try, well it is something I am actually trying (‘trying’). The ease with which you can get around without actually engaging with other people (that you don’t know) is startlingly easy – don’t make eye contact, keep your head down, drown out the world with music you’re not really listening too, keep walking, don’t stop.

But you’ve got to start somewhere, right?

April 17, 2011

One response to Approach Anxiety

  1. Kate said:

    Renind me to talk to you about the basic principal of the compassionate mind approach that i was training on last friday. Think it might be useful x

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

*

You may use these HTML tags and attributes: <a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <strike> <strong>